During the war a church in Strasburg, Germany, was totally destroyed; but a statue of Christ which stood by the altar was almost unharmed. Only the hands of the statue were missing.
When the church was rebuilt, a famous sculptor offered to make new hands; but, after considering the matter, the members decided to let it stand as it was—without hands. “For,” they said, “Christ has no hands but our hands to do His work on earth.
“If we don’t feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, entertain the stranger, visit the imprisoned, and clothe the naked, who will?” Christ is depending on us to do the very things which He did while upon earth. “My friend, if the gospel we preach does not have a social application, if it will not work effectively in the work-a-day world, then it is not the Gospel of Christ.” (Billy Graham)
Q: How do you know if you're actually helping someone or if they're just taking advantage of you? My cousin is an alcoholic, and last year she moved in with us after her family threw her out. But nothing has changed and I'm not sure we're doing her any good.
A: To be honest, it may not be clear at the time if we’re actually helping someone or if they’re just taking advantage of us. Not everyone wants to change; some people only want to stay the way they are.
But what is clear is that they have a need, and God has put them across our path to do what we can to help them. Jesus once healed 10 lepers but only one came back to thank Him; the others were simply taking advantage of Him (see Luke 17:11-18). But did that mean Jesus shouldn’t have bothered with them? No, of course not; one man was changed, both in body and in soul.
At the same time, your cousin is on a dead-end road, and simply providing her with food and shelter isn’t solving her problem. She needs help, and you are in the best position to get her to it; she won’t find it on her own. Ask your pastor, doctor, or other knowledgeable person what resources are available in your community to help her—and then give her a deadline to get connected to them. You’ve probably heard the expression “tough love,” and the time has come for you to practice it—both for her sake and yours.
Most of all, pray for her, and ask God to help you point her to Christ. The Bible’s words are true: “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1).
Prayer for the day
I look at my hands, Lord Jesus, and ask you to use them this day.
Make me conscious of the needs of those who hurt. Amen.